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The Village and the Child:

The Child and the Village 

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​Some expressions are worth exploring
throughout human history including 
​
in the present moment, like this one: 

​     It takes a village to raise a child.
 
Our ideas/conceptions of children may have changed over time and throughout different periods of history, but we are all united by being children. 

What does it mean to be a child? 

In definition 1 from Dictionary.com (see image), “child” is an age label/designation, often used alongside other age labels (youth/adolescent/teenager, adult, and senior). 

In definition 2, “child” refers to the offspring of people who are called our parents.
 
Furthermore, as in definition 6, “child” is used to refer to descendants, which are people who can trace their genetic or familial heritage to particular ancestors (people who came before us). 

​Meanwhile, there are negative derivations from “child” like “childish”, as in definition 5, to signal immaturity or immature/undeveloped behavior, using (or drawing on) the metaphor of children being in a state of maturing/developing/growing through what can be divided into various stages of childhood. 
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​There are also positive derivations from “child” like “childlike”, meaning “(of an adult) having good qualities associated with a child”, with synonyms including "innocent", "guileless",  "trusting", and "natural" (Oxford). ​
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For our purposes, we can start with definition 1 since it matches today's common usages of "child": “a person between birth and puberty or full growth”. 

This is one of the ways in which we think about children (through age classification), but how else do we conceive of children? 
 
In the media of the last few decades, thinking of children as being the future is a fairly common trope (that is, a figurative use of language). So is the idea that today’s future belongs to children today. In these senses, children and the future are spoken of as being valuable. 

However, in our world, children are not always treated as though they are the future, but, instead, are often treated as if they are possessions, tools, or weapons. Meanwhile, the way a major part of our world is currently operating/functioning/behaving is as if the future belongs to no one and has no value. 

The Learning Word embraces the reality that (the) children are, in fact, our future, and they are participants in our shared/collective present. They are part of the village as much as anyone else—the arms and lengths that embrace the village and carry the village—and they deserve a seat at the table as much as anyone else. They deserve to be treated as though they are the future (or are part of the future), and indeed as though they are as much a part of the present as anyone else. They deserve to be treated with respect, love, and care. They deserve to live in a world that operates/functions/behaves as if the future belongs to all beings—to all of us—and as if the present does, too. 
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​The Learning Word also embraces a world in which children are recognized for participating in taking care of other people and other beings, a world in which we understand that if we responsibly make more space in society for children to have responsibility, they will rise to the challenge. ​

​rise to (from Collins Dictionary)
to respond adequately to
​(the demands of something, esp a testing challenge) 

​esp = especially 

On the Horizon
  responsibly
   What does "responsibly" mean to you?
   Exploration of this word coming soon . . . 

responsibility
Dictionary: Definitions from Oxford Languages 
re·spon·si·bil·i·ty
     · the opportunity or ability to act independently and make
​       decisions without authorization.

​The Learning Word proposes that we, the world, collectively need to better support children in participating in community-building and world-building. So far in human history, children have not yet been given much chance to participate. Meanwhile, some people of all ages have been working tirelessly to build a better world, and while many have fought for basic human rights and freedom from oppression from immature adults who are dictators, tyrants, and autocrats (adult bullies to the extreme), other adults including those bullies have been making a mess of the world through atrocities of oppression and war. Children—and people generally—deserve much more. 

Why aren’t children given a seat at the table? 
​
How can children be given a seat at the table, always? 


The Learning Word sets out to explore these questions
​and answers to them. 
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To begin, we turn to a song that had
a profound impact on many a children who listened to it: 
​

The Greatest Love of All 


The song is "The Greatest Love of All", written by Linda Creed and Michael Masser and sung by Whitney Houston, whose debut album Whitney Houston I had on cassette when I was 10. I would listen to some songs on the album, including “The Greatest Love of All”, over and over again. ​

Looking at the lyrics to this song now, as an adult (my current age label) more than three and a half (3.5+) decades on, I see "The Greatest Love of All" as a tribute to the child and also as a map to how we can better support children—that is, a set of instructions that we can use to do this. 

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The song begins like this:
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  ​I believe the children are our future.
  Teach them well and let them lead the way.
  Show them all the beauty they possess inside.
  Give them a sense of pride to make it easier.
  Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be. 

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As you can see, these lines are hopeful and honor children in a way that is not yet done nearly enough in the cultures of the world today, and has not yet been done consistently in any culture—at least not in any of the cultures I’ve experienced or am aware of. [*] Particularly, these lines are hopeful and honoring because they are empowering: 

[*] What are some of the ways in which
children are honored and empowered
 
in your / one of your culture/s, or in a culture/s that you’ve lived in ​or have come to know about?


​​”Teach[ing] them well” is paralleled with “let[ting] them lead the way”. 
is paralleled with
 
to put (parts of a sentence)
into parallel structure

What is the effect of using parallel structure? 

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hopeful
Dictionary: Definitions from Oxford Languages 
hope·ful
adjective
  feeling or  
  inspiring optimism about a future
  event.
  "a hopeful sign" 

The two actions are joined by the coordinating conjunction “and”, which serves to add one idea to another idea of equal and balanced weight. 

Teaching them is only half (not more), of the way to support children, and it’s “Teach[ing] them well” (emphasis added). The other half of supporting children is letting them lead the way. 

One way to do this is explained in the next line of the song:

  “Show them all the beauty they possess inside.”

This means facilitating their discovery of what they think and know, for example, by ensuring they have time to think regularly, and by asking them open-ended questions that allow them to practice expressing their thoughts and ideas. (This is part of the methodology embraced and utilized at the Montreal Fluency Centre’s Taylor Adolescent Program (TAP).) 

The song instructs, moreover, to “Give them a sense of pride to make it easier”, where “life” or “circumstances” is represented by what some might call the dummy pronoun “it” (read more here). 

What does it mean to give children a sense of pride? Since pride is "consciousness of one's own dignity" (Oxford), giving children a sense of pride, means allowing them to develop (their personality, life choices and actions, etc.) with pride. And doesn't this mean respecting who they are as they are (within the bounds of not harming others by imposing one's will on them)? 
to be continued . . . 


One way to do this is explained in the next line of the song. 

--> Using use clear pronoun antecedents 
​      
(with verb ellipsis)
 
One way to let children lead the way is explained in the next line of the song. 





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​Here, the positive connotation of the word “pride” is intended. ​

“Respect means that you accept somebody for who they are, even when they’re different from you or you don’t agree with them.” (Kids Helpline (in Australia))
 
https://kidshelpphone.ca/
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Curricula That Embrace Children's Agency 

https://www.himama.com/blog/play-participation-and-possibilities-alberta-curriculum-framework/ 
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More coming soon . . . ​
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